Assalamualaikum warahmatullah. Sir my elder brother is getting a ways from Islaam and dad and mom day by day. He previously worked in a personal bank, then he left his activity few months in the past as he stated its haraam and that i can't do it. Now he remains all the time at domestic along with his telephone, and does not even pray one time salah, and additionally he fights even on little things with mom, my mom being psychologically not so proper, her fitness is worsening each day, please help to deliver my brother returned again closer to Islaan and closer to dad and mom. And also I have a query, is there any opportunity that any type of magic had been accomplished on my brother, as he has been my concept closer to rightiousness of ous deen and now he's a long way away from It. Please help. Jazakallah
Answer:
Your query is divided into four parts.
Part 1: sitting at domestic not working and the use of Islam's excuse to achieve this.
Part 2: Not pleasing obligatory islamic duties
Part three: Harming the dad and mom
Part four: The possibility of magic or evil eye
Part 1: sitting at home not operating and the usage of Islam's excuse to accomplish that.
I am very satisfied to read the way you started out your query through acknowledging that he is opposing or shifting far from Islam. Because in this time and day when minute fractions abuse and misuse islam to fulfil their very own desires, falsely mentioning islam as an excuse to justify their actions.
shall we start quoting the evaluations and fatawa from the pious predecessors:
(حديث موقوف) حَدَّثَنِي حَدَّثَنِي عَلِيُّ بْنُ الْحُسَيْنِ الْعَامِرِيُّ ، نا يَزِيدُ بْنُ هَارُونَ ، أنا عَوْنُ بْنُ مُوسَى ، عَنْ مُعَاوِيَةَ بْنِ قُرَّةَ ، أَنَّ عُمَرَ بْنَ الْخَطَّابِ لَقِيَ نَاسًا مِنْ أَهْلِ الْيَمَنِ ، فَقَالَ : " مَنْ أَنْتُمْ ؟ " . قَالُوا : نَحْنُ الْمُتَوَكِّلُونَ ، قَالَ : " بَلْ أَنْتُمُ الْمُتَّكِلُونَ ، إِنَّمَا الْمُتَوَكِّلُ الَّذِي يُلْقِي حَبَّهُ فِي الأَرْضِ ، وَيَتَوَكَّلُ عَلَى اللَّهِ " .
Mua`wiya Ibn Qurra stated: `Umar Ibn al-Khattab (radhiallahu `anhu) met a few (jobless) human beings from Yemen, and asked them: "Who are you?,
They stated: 'We are al-Mutawakkilun' (individuals who placed their accept as true with in Allah), he instructed them: 'You are al-Muta 'akilun (the rusty), (as) al-Mutawakkil is the one who first ploughs his land after which places his believe on Allah"
[Ref: Al-Irshad Ila Sahih al-I`tiqaad, 78; http://library.Islamweb.Net/hadith/display_hbook.Php?Hflag=1&bk_no=229&pid=821411 ]
Imam ibn Qayyim rahimahullah stated:
"There are folks that ask why they have to ask approximately some thing while the whole thing is already determined. Then we ask them why they should devour once they end up hungry when it already is decided that he's going to consume? These are extra inaccurate than the animals, even the animals take manner to acquire some thing."
[Ref: his book ad-Da' wad-dawa , p.18]
وقد سئل أحمد عن رجل جلس في بيته أو في المسجد وقال لا أعمل شيئا حتى يأتيني رزقي فقال هذا رجل جهل العلم فقد قال النبي – صلى الله عليه وسلم – إن الله جعل رزقي تحت ظل رمحي وقال لو توكلتم على الله حق توكله لرزقكم كما يرزق الطير تغدو خماصا وتروح بطانا فذكر أنها تغدو وتروح في طلب الرزق قال وكان الصحابة يتجرون ويعملون في نخيلهم والقدوة بهم . انتهى
Imam Ahmad [bin Hanbal] was requested approximately a person who sits in his residence or in the masjid (undertaking prayer/dua/etc) and says, ‘I will no longer do any work until my provision involves me,’
so he stated, ‘This man is unaware of knowledge, for the Prophet (ﷺ) said, “Verily Allah has made my provision under the coloration of my spear,” and he stated, ‘If you have been to workout al-tawakkal upon Allah with the reliance which He is due, then He would provide for you just as He affords for the birds: they exit hungry inside the morning and return full inside the evening.” So he mentioned that they (paintings hard and) exit within the morning to go back in the evening within the pursuit of provision. And the sahaabah used to try and paintings in the date-palm fields and we've got a (top) example in them.”
[Ref: Fath al-Bari under 9675]
Abdullaah Ibn Mas’ood (radiallahu `anhu): “Indeed, I hate to look a person totally free, now not doing some thing from the work of the existence of this world nor the Hereafter.”
[Ref: Imam abu nu`aym's book Al-Hilyah 1/130]
Part 2: Not fulfilling compulsory islamic obligations
The Prophet said: (In a dream, I saw someone) whose head changed into being crushed with a stone (and he) was the one who learnt the Qur’an but by no means acted on it, and slept ignoring the obligatory prayers.
[Ref: Saheeh Bukhari 1143]
1257- Abu ‘Aasim informed us, from Ibn Juraij, Abu Al-Jubair narrated to us that he heard Jabir saying: or Jabir stated: Messenger of Allah (sallalahu `alayhi wa sallam)stated: Between individual and Polytheism or Infidelity there is difference of leaving prayer
[Ref: Sunan darimi 1257]
Abdullah ibn Amr suggested: The Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, mention prayer someday and he stated, “Whoever guards his prayers will have mild and readability and salvation on the Day of Resurrection. Whoever does no longer guard his prayers will now not have mild nor clarity nor salvation, and on the Day of Resurrection he can be with Qarun and Firaun and Haman and Ubay ibn Khalaf.”
[Ref: Musnad Ahmad 6540]
"But there came after them successors who disregarded prayer and pursued desires; so they're going to satisfy evil -" [19:59]
Imam al-Qurtubi, in his ebook of tafsir, concludes his discussion on the neglecting of prayer by writing:
[وجملة القول هذا الباب أن من لم يحافظ على كمال وضوئها وركوعها وسجودها فليس بمحافظ عليها، ومن لم يحافظ عليها فقد ضيعها، ومن ضيعها فهو لما سواها أضيع، كما أن من حافظ عليها حفظ الله عليه دينه، ولا دين لمن لا صلاة له. ]
"To summarize this trouble, whoever does not guard and keep the perfection and completeness of the prayer's ablution, its bowing, and its prostration, then he isn't a preserver of the prayer. And whoever does not preserve it, then he neglects it, and whoever neglects it, then it's miles similar to if he has misplaced it. Similarly, whoever is fastidious in preserving his prayers, Allah protects and preserves his deen. And there may be no deen for the one who has no salaah.
[Ref: Jaami' li-Ahkam al-Qur'an 11/47]
Part 3: Harming the mother and father
Your brother ought to recognise that the sin of harming the dad and mom is a prime sin whose consequences are excessive both on this world and hereafter. If an adult son or daughter disobeys and turns into the cause of anxiety and pain for his elderly dad and mom due to his actions then this is a very extreme issue to do. May allah make us amongst dutiful kids
The Messenger of Allah stated: “There are 3 at whom Allah will no longer look at the Day of Resurrection: The one who disobeys/disrespects his parents,....And there are three who will not enter Paradise: The one who disobeys his parents, ....‘
[Ref: Sunan an-Nasai,Vol. 3, Book 3, Hadith 2563]
`Umar ibn khattab (r.A) said some of the important movements are: ....And causing one’s mother and father to weep through disobedience.’ Ibn ‘Umar then said to me, ‘Do you want to separate yourself from the Fire? Would you want to go into Paradise?’ ‘By Allah, sure!’ I replied. He asked, ‘Are your mother and father still alive?’ I replied, ‘My mother is.’ He stated, ‘By Allah, if you talk gently to her and feed her, then you may input the Garden as long as you avoid the main wrong moves.’”
[Ref: Adab al Mufrad Book 1, Hadith 8]
7345 - حدثنا علي بن حمشاذ ، العدل - رحمه الله تعالى - وعبد الله بن الحسن القاضي ، قالا : ثنا الحارث بن أبي أسامة ، ثنا محمد بن عيسى بن الطباع ، ثنا بكار بن عبد [ ص: 217 ] العزيز بن أبي بكرة ، قال : سمعت أبي ، يحدث عن أبي بكرة ، رضي الله عنه قال : سمعت رسول الله صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم يقول : " كل الذنوب يؤخر الله ما شاء منها إلى يوم القيامة إلا عقوق الوالدين فإن الله تعالى يعجله لصاحبه في الحياة قبل الممات " .
Abu bakra radhiallahu `anhu narrated that the prophet (sallalahu `alayhi wa sallam) became mentioned to have stated: " Allah may forgive in any way sins (one commits) a few of the (various forms of ) sins except disobedience (disloyalty, ungratefulness) in the direction of the parents. Rather he inflicts the punishment (for it) on this international (itself) earlier than (the disobedient toddler’s) dying"
[Ref: Mustadrak Al-Haakim, Mishkat al-Masaabeh (4945) and elsewhere, da`eef]
Part 4: The possibility of magic or evil eye
the data you gave is inadequate to decide if this is a case of magic or not. So far from anything little you've got knowledgeable us through your question all we can say is that commonplace experience desires to be knocked into him. Be it via your parents, thru yourself or own family contributors and friends. Anyone else who can are available on hand and is a properly wisher of your family, who may not misuse the scenario and make it all of the more worse - can be requested for assist.
his actions are incorrect both from an Islamic point of view in addition to wordily. However, a muslim should always recite the precise du`as to shield him from evil eye and terrible calamity. Here is a hyperlink you may talk over with for these du`as: https://the-finalrevelation.Blogspot.Com/2012/07/duas-to-defend-from-evil-eye-buri.Html
But if in case there is an detail of magic, then the whole scenario changes. You will ought to cooperate with a great god-fearing raaqi who sticks to qur'an and sunnah and doesn't involve himself with unislamic practises (inclusive of amulets, no longer adhering to islamic hijab, the use of other jinns for assist and many others) or strategies for curing a person below jinn ownership/magic have an effect on.
for starters you can begin by reciting surah baqrah in your own home loudly either the use of an audio player or a domestic theatre machine or something you have got of a bluetooth speaker and many others. Such that surah baqrah echoes throughout the complete residence. The quality technique is to loudly recite it in my view for three days however if that cannot be finished then a cheap alternative is to play it loudly using one of the audio system for atleast three days - say 6-eight hours in line with day.
surah baqrah + aale imran
It become narrated from al-Nu’maan ibn Basheer (can also Allaah be thrilled with him) that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) stated: “Allaah inscribed a ebook thousand years earlier than He created the heavens and the earth, from which the ultimate aayahs of Soorat al-Baqarah had been revealed. If they may be recited for three nights, no shaytaan (satan)will stay inside the residence)
[Ref: Narrated by al-Tirmidhi, 2882. This hadeeth was classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh al-Jaami’, 1799]
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